Long before the bright lights and chart-topping songs, Vince Gill knew loss — and it came in the form of his beloved older half-brother, Bob Coen.
Bob, who was born with severe physical and developmental challenges, was raised by Vince’s mother from a previous marriage and became a quiet but powerful presence in Vince’s life. Though Bob never spoke a word, his influence on Vince was profound — shaping the country artist’s compassion, faith, and deep sense of family loyalty.
Bob Coen passed away in 1993 at the family’s longtime home in Oklahoma, the place where he had lived most of his life under the devoted care of their mother. It wasn’t a hospital or a facility, but rather a simple, loving home — the kind where music, prayer, and quiet strength were constants.
He was laid to rest in Norman, Oklahoma, not far from the town where he spent his days. His grave, tucked into a peaceful cemetery lined with oaks and whispering winds, is modest but meaningful. Vince has often spoken of visiting it — not with fanfare, but with flowers, tears, and the kind of love that only brothers know.
Years later, Vince would honor Bob’s memory in one of the most emotional moments of his career: the song “Go Rest High on That Mountain.” While initially inspired by the loss of fellow musician Keith Whitley, the second verse — Vince has said — was written for Bob.
“I know your life on earth was troubled
And only you could know the pain…”
Bob may have lived in silence, but his legacy speaks volumes — through Vince’s music, his gentle heart, and the faith that carries their family still.
At his final resting place, there are no crowds, no cameras — just the quiet testimony of a life that mattered deeply. And for Vince Gill, the memory of his brother remains not behind, but beside him… always.